Regain Your Sexual Integrity: Effective and Caring Counseling In Atlanta For Sex And Pornography Addiction

Submitted by Bill Herring on Mon, 2008-09-15 20:21
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The pipeline of pornography and sexual intrigue on the Internet has had a profoundly negative influence on millions of men and women. A person who starts out just being "curious" can gradually begin doing more and more of what he or she knows to be wrong.....but just can't seem to stop!

Illicit sexual excitement can slowly develop into an all-purpose 'high' that intensifies, soothes, rewards or numbs almost any situation or feeling. Secrecy and deception inevitably accompany such behavior, increasing emotional isolation and highly distorted thinking. This leads to a never-ending cycle of reliance on the very behavior that inevitably results in pain and shame.

Secretive, risky or compulsive sexual behavior has the capacity to destroy even the strongest relationships, reputations, promises and principles. Many otherwise moral, loving and trustworthy women and men have engaged in a pattern of sexual behavior that is neither safe nor sensible, even when they know that doing so risks everything that gives meaning and worth to their life. Eventually the day comes when they are forced to acknowledge (often after thick walls of denial have come shattering down) that they are not in sufficient control of their sexual thoughts, feelings and actions. To them and their loved ones, the pain can seem unbearable

Sex addiction is much more than just "liking sex a lot". It's being unable to stop engaging in secretive and unhealthy sexual behaviors despite the desire to do so. It's very real, and its tragic consequences include risks to a person's health, job and relationships as well as the loss of integrity, trust, time and self-esteem.

Sex addiction rarely just "goes away". Promises and remorse, no matter how sincere, generally aren't enough to prevent the eventual return of sexually addictive impulses and urges. There are ongoing steps to take (not just words to say) to do the hard work of rebuilding sexual integrity, regaining broken trust, healing damaged relationships and repairing all the layers of damage to mind, body and spirit.

The phrase "sex addiction" bothers some people greatly if they think it might apply to them. Names are just words: whether you call it lust or porn addiction, compulsive sexual behavior, poorly regulated sexual impulse or any other name, here are some typical warning signs that may indicate a growing problem with sexual self-control.

  • Do You Keep Secrets About Your Sexual Activities From Those Important To You?  Do You Lead A Double Life Regarding Some Aspects Of Your Sexual Behavior?
  • Do You Become Sexual With People Or In Ways You Later Regret?
  • Do You Find Yourself Seeking More Intense or Frequent Sexual Activity Despite Not Wanting To?
  • Does Your Sexual Behavior Put You At Risk For Job Loss, Divorce, Disease, Legal Action or Other Dire Consequences?
  • Have You Ever Broken A Sincerely Made Promise Never To Repeat A Particular Sexual Behavior?

If you see yourself in these questions the good news is that effective and caring help is available!

I'm Bill Herring, and I'm a therapist in Atlanta with many years of experience helping individuals and couples caught up in the destructive cycle of addictive sexual behavior.  I've helped people from all walks of life heal from the heartache and shame these behaviors can bring to themselves and the people they love.

To learn more about my approach to sex addiction and its treatment you can read my article entitled "Healing From Sex Addiction".

You may also find it valuable to view, download, print and share a copy of an informative and inviting brochure that describes many of the benefits of my sex addiction counseling services.

I hope you take some time to browse my website.  You will find a great deal of information to give you much-needed hope that you can grow and heal from the pain of your past into a brighter, happier future!  Admitting the need for help is a hallmark of courage and the gateway to a healthier and happier life. I'm ready to offer you expert guidance and caring support to assist your journey into the kind of life you deserve to have.

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My counseling office is easily accessible from all areas of metro Atlanta including Alpharetta, Buckhead, Clarkston, Conyers, Decatur, Chamblee, East Point, Fayetteville, Forest Park, Johns Creek, Lawrenceville, Lilburn, Marietta, Milton, Peachtree City, Riverdale, Roswell, Sandy Springs, Smyrna, Snellville, Stone Mountain, Sugar Hill, Suwanee, Tucker and surrounding areas.

Go to Bill Herring's home page for more information about how to experience the kind of life you deserve, or contact me by phone or email now.